Relationship Problems

7 Ways Of Dealing With Dating Anxiety
Not everyone is a pro at dating. Sometimes we just get stuck between the idea of dating, giving hints to know how she feels, waiting for the right time to ask her out, fear of ruining the relationship and fear of losing her. This tension is natural when it comes to relationship, but men often disguise their apprehensions with the ‘single’ status. It feels that they don’t want to identify themselves with this anxiety of getting into a relationship or dating. This is possibly one of the reasons why some men don’t succeed in getting into any relationship.
Before you jump on those ultimate dating tips to sweep your girl off her feet, it’s very important to actually come to terms with the fact that you have this dating anxiety. Once you confront this feeling, it will become easy for you to overcome them.
1. What If She Is Not ‘The One’
While you can be somebody’s Mr. Perfect, you too are on a constant search for the woman who is perfect for you. In the process you end up comparing every girl you meet and don’t really like anyone. You also get worried about “What if she is not the one?”
Guys, presumptions won’t help, trying to know her would.

2. The Fear Of Heart break
We all are afraid of getting hurt. But if you hold yourself back because of this fear, then you are definitely going to be left heartbroken. See you don’t know whether you would get hurt or not, but even for that you would have to at least give it a shot.
What you can do is be more honest with her about your feelings and love.

3. My Life Revolves Around Murphy’s Law
You might have been weak in the science subject, but one law you just can’t get over is the Murphy’s Law. You feel that if anything has to go wrong, it will go wrong which makes you view everything in a negative light.
Let that law be there only for knowledge, don’t let it ruin your prospects in love.

4. The Damage Caused By Past Relationship
Getting over your past relationship is tricky and no matter what you do, it always affects your present and future. You might as well feel that the debris from your damaged relationship will get carried forward in this one too.
Let your past stay right where it is. Neither the people nor the situations are same. So don’t compare your past and present.

5. Fear Of Falling Out Of Love
Some might argue on this point but people often have this fear that they might fall out of love and hurt the other person. So you don’t give yourself a chance at all thinking that this might be good for both of you (we know it sounds cliché.)
You are not a fortune teller, so don’t act like one. Instead, go ahead and at least give yourself a chance.

6. She Is Too Good For Me
The ‘Out of my league’ concept is so popular that we always end up compromising on our love. Guys honestly, if you won’t try, someone else will. By accepting the fact that a girl is too good for you, you are actually limiting yourself to failure and bad dates.
She is out of your league only till the time you think she is. Find the real cause for your insecurity and once done that, approach her with confidence.

7. The Fear Of Rejection
No one likes being rejected! But if you don’t make a move at all fearing rejection, it’s worse than getting rejected. In fact, I have seen many people see the person they love dating someone else, just because they didn’t have the guts or were scared of getting a ‘no’.
Guys, there is no harm in confessing your feelings. Like even if she says no, at least you tried and won’t have any regrets later.

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